Ways To Manage Stress When Pregnant

It’s normal to feel stressed during pregnancy. There are so many things that can make us feel overwhelmed. Anything that puts high demands on a person can be considered a stressor, and pregnancy is no exception.

Constant feelings of stress and worry can colour the whole experience of pregnancy negatively, and if left unchecked, cause concerns for the baby and the mother’s health. If you are experiencing this kind of stress, we suggest you visit your GP as soon as possible.

The stress we are concerned with managing, is the kind that takes away from the joy of pregnancy. This is, after all, a time like no other, so why not make it worth remembering?

Stress can be used by our minds as a way of signalling when something in our lifestyle needs to change or that we’ve taken on too much, so it’s normal to be stressed while pregnant. The key is to take stock and manage it before it turns into an endless cycle of worry.

For these milder forms of stress and keeping a cycle of worry and negative thinking at bay, we have a few useful suggestions.

What causes stress during pregnancy?

Sometimes, there isn’t any one thing that causes stress during pregnancy. But most of the time stress and worries are related to very real things, often the same things that worry us when we’re not pregnant, such as a lack of time and money. Anyone who’s been through a pregnancy knows that a new born baby will stretch these resources even further.

The trick is to prepare as much as you can for the arrival of the baby by making changes and preparing where you can. Where you can’t change things, trying to change your thought processes to see things more positively, or at least see the silver lining in negatives, can help you to avoid negative spirals.

Sometimes all it takes is a change of scenery or a bit of self-care to be able to turn negative thoughts around. Small things like making time for ourselves or budgeting can alter our perception of a situation enough to turn it from a negative experience to something more positive.

How to relieve stress during pregnancy

Most of what we suggest here are relaxation techniques, punctuated by preparatory steps that will give you some peace of mind during pregnancy.

Take time out to focus on yourself and your baby

Your body will be making significant changes to accommodate your baby. Taking the time to recognise and accept this will help you process these changes, rather than letting them affect your mood subconsciously. Most people will refer to this as mindfulness practice, and countless pregnant women will vouch for it.

Other complimentary therapies and relaxation techniques such as massage and aromatherapy will also help your mind slow down enough for you to notice the things that are getting you bogged down.

Sleep when you’re tired

You’ll feel a significant drop in your energy levels during the first 14 weeks of pregnancy. You’ll find yourself needing to sleep much more than usual. When you can, we recommend trying to sleep, and spending as much time doing so to help you maintain your energy levels.

Let others help

During pregnancy your body will need all the rest it can get. Fighting the need to go to sleep to keep the rest of your responsibilities ticking over is a stressor. However, one way to address this is by letting your partner take on more of your shared responsibilities and asking your family or friends for help.

Face any money worries

Make a list of everything you’ll need and prioritise them. Decide what you can afford to buy and consider your options for getting the things you can’t.

You might find that you won’t have the financial flexibility to buy everything brand new. But there will be lots of things you can get from friends and family, or buy second hand, like car seats, cribs and strollers.

Having a baby shower and making a list of things you need is another way of letting friends and family help you provide things like clothes, bottles, sterilisers and nappies. All of which are undoubtedly essential and can reduce stress caused by finances.

Prepare for birth and your baby’s early days

This is fun when doing it with your partner, your mum, sister or another expecting person. Meeting up regularly to discuss what you have learned about the stages of development of your baby will help you prepare mentally and get you excited about their arrival.

Do this by joining antenatal and postnatal care classes, reading everything you can, and speaking to your own mother, doctor, midwife and other expecting mums about what it’ll be like.

Gentle exercise

You’ve probably heard this one before, and for good reason. Exercise is a tried and trusted stress reliever and endorphin booster. We would recommend light exercise like pregnancy yoga and swimming if you are new to exercise. Swimming is a great light exercise to do whilst pregnant as it places very little strain on the joints.

Ask for advice

The internet can be full of worrying advice so if there’s something about your physical or mental health that bothers you or something you are uncertain about, speak to your doctor. Women who have had IVF or any other fertility treatments should speak to someone from their clinic. If there’s something specific that worries you, healthcare professionals will be able to do the tests or checks that will help settle any worries you might have.